New Title
I have changed the name from Sex Drugs and Politics to Sex Drugs and Rock & Roll (SDNRNR). A minor change, but one I felt would be more germane to the subject matter discussed and commented upon. I only ask that you not judge a Blog by its Title.
I have some reservations about the change. This statement, a widely used one at that, has come to describe an unhealthy, selfish lifestyle. I'd like to clarify on my feelings regarding this dispelling any misgivings a reader may have toward my intentions.
In order help avoid confusion and provide clarity I will use two archetypes:
- Type I :-(
- Type II :-)
Take yourself back, for some this may only be a matter of last night, others may have to go further. Your at a bar, or maybe a sporting event. Maybe a party, or for others, the after/after party. At some point, someone, usually the one who thinks their a "Real Player " or "High Roller", makes the statement...."It's all about sex drugs and rock & roll". Often, but not in all instances, this statement is finished with "baby !". The comment is warmly received, the others in his/her proximity may join in. Its effect, from one to many, directs the focus and sustains the energy necessary to reach the goal.
In this context SDNRNR encourages:
Sex - Getting naked with multiple partners, perhaps simultaneously, repeated as often physically possible.
Drugs - The use of mind altering stimulants, taken in large quantities, repeated as often as physically possible.
Rock & Roll - A proclamation to be a "Rock Star". An ideal role model being Mick Jagger, unattainable for most, it becomes nothing more then a wanting desire to be like Mick Jagger. At best, this goes no further then a momentary sensation of feeling like you are Mick Jagger. In some instances you may impersonate Mick, or at least try to.
In the Type I :-( archetype the SDNRNR mantra develops into a set of values by which to conduct daily life. However, the 24x7 pursuit of realizing satisfaction and pleasure turns into a viscous cycle. One that eventually leads to the inability to be satisfied, enough becomes never enough. Life itself becomes rather unenjoyable when the seeds of your labor never blossom into flowers. The choices made when living within this value system leads to a variety of undesirable circumstance (financial ruin, alienation of friends and family, incarceration) to name only a few of the most common. The worst case scenario is death, either unintentionally, ala Jimi Hendrix, or intentionally, ala Hunter S. Thomsen.
Type II :-)
Look now to the future, you could be at a bar, a sporting event, or even at the after/after party. In your midst, overshadowed by the "High Roller", is the true Rock Star. In many cases this person ends up containing or repairing the damage caused by the "High Roller". In return, the real High Roller receives little to nothing, and, in many instances, finds themselves in a similar situation the next evening, or following weekend.
In this context SDNRNR encourages:
Sex - physical expressions of love such as hand shakes, hugs and kisses. Shared with multiple partners, perhaps simultaneously, as frequently as physically possible.
Drugs - emotional expressions of love and compassion. Shared with multiple partners, in large qauntities, as often as spiritually possible.
Rock & Roll - A way of life proclaimed through actions rather then words. The best examples are found within our immediate community. Since the best examples are our peers, perhaps a co-worker or a neighbor, it is easy to follow in their footsteps for a lifetime. Following in their footsteps brings out a person within yourself thereby avoiding the pitfalls of trying to be someone you're not.
In the Type II :-) archetype we find a set of values that does not require a mantra. Lived 24x7, life becomes rewarding without relying on short bursts of self indulged euphoria. Satisfaction comes without the necessity of doing it all on your own, and is often found by helping others do more. You're not only able to enjoy the fruit of your own labor, but also that of others. Your choices lead to desirable outcomes, you tend to have enough money, plenty of friends and your free to do what you want. There is no worst case scenario.





